A live group experience for ambitious women who are ready to rewire their patterns in love, receive support, and finally be met by men who embody integrity, presence, and depth now... not another year from now.
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You Don't Have To Do This Alone...
You’ve worked hard on yourself. You’re ambitious, self-aware, and committed to growth. You’ve read the books, listened to the podcasts, maybe even done therapy or coaching.
And still, love feels complicated.
You attract men who can’t truly meet you, or who pull away when things get real.
You find yourself leading, over-giving, or holding everything together.
You second-guess if you’re “too much” or wonder if you’ll ever be met in full.
You don’t need another dating tip or another year of trying harder.
What you need is a new experience, one that helps you rewire your nervous system, shift your relationship blueprint, and stop carrying it all alone.
That’s why Decode the Masculine exists.
Here's the Truth
If you’ve ever whispered to yourself, “Why do I work so hard on myself… and still end up here?” you are not broken, and you are not alone.
It’s not because you’re not attractive enough.
It’s not because you’re too much.
And it’s certainly not because you are unworthy of love.
The truth is simpler... and far more hopeful.
Your nervous system has been trained, over years of experience, to survive by falling into familiar patterns:
Feeling magnetized to men who can’t truly meet you.
Pulling back trust when a man says he’ll show up.
Carrying all the weight in relationships because it feels safer to lead than to lean back.
That wiring has protected you, but it’s also kept you from the intimacy you long for.
And here’s the beautiful shift: your nervous system can be rewired.
When your body learns what safety, trust, and polarity truly feel like, love no longer feels like hard work.
It becomes natural. Effortless. Unmistakable.
What Does It Mean to Decode the Masculine?
Over the years, countless women have come to us with questions like:
→ “He hasn’t texted me in five days, is he not interested? Should I reach out?”
→ “When a man is really interested, will he always make the first move?”
→ “On a date, do I offer to pay? Or do I let him lead?”
We’ve heard these questions from clients, from friends, from women all over the world. And here’s what we’ve realized:
Men are not as complicated as you might think. In truth, they’re simple.
It’s women who are layered, complex, and profoundly intuitive.
That’s why Decode the Masculine isn’t about scripts, strategies, or playing games.
It’s about helping you trust yourself.
It’s about guiding you back into your feminine, so you can feel clear, confident, and at peace in love.
Because love doesn’t have to feel like another test, another performance, another exhausting cycle.
You don’t actually want to stay single.
What you desire, and what you deserve, is partnership with a man who sees you, supports you, and cherishes you.
That’s what Decode the Masculine is here to help you experience.
Imagine This...
You walk into a room (even virtually)… and for the first time, you feel it.
Men holding presence, integrity, and depth. Women like you, committed to breaking old patterns.
Your body softens. Your guard lowers. You realize you don’t have to carry it all anymore.
You feel what it’s like to be supported, seen, and guided.
Not just by coaches, but by a circle that reflects the love and leadership you’ve been longing for.
Welcome to Decode the Masculine
The only membership where high-achieving women are guided, not with theory, but through direct experience, by men who have done the deep inner work.
Men who embody the healthy, integrated masculinity you’ve been longing to feel.
Inside, you will:
Rewire your nervous system so that love feels natural, safe, and secure.
Heal your relationship with men at the root, dissolving old wounds instead of covering them with strategies.
Experience polarity in real time with grounded men who hold presence, strength, and safety.
Rebuild trust in your own body, so you stop second-guessing and start knowing when a man is truly aligned.
Create ease in love, releasing the exhausting habit of over-functioning and opening into the art of receiving.
This is not just another program.
It’s a living laboratory of transformation, where you don’t just learn about healthy masculinity… you finally experience it.
What's Included
When you join, you don’t just get access to content, you step into a living, high-touch experience designed to rewire your body, shift your patterns, and change the way you experience love forever.
Bi-Weekly 2-Hour Coaching Calls with Joshua & Stefanos
Receive direct, no-fluff guidance from men who don’t just teach healthy masculine leadership, they embody it. Every session is interactive, intimate, and designed to create real breakthroughs in your relationships.Exclusive Expert Interviews
Learn from world-class coaches, psychologists, and thought leaders on polarity, relationships, and embodiment. These expert perspectives expand your understanding and give you tools you won’t find anywhere else.Live Q&A + Hot Seat Coaching
Bring your real-life challenges, patterns, and questions into the space. Receive grounded reflection, embodied feedback, and powerful re-frames you can’t get from books or theory.Monthly Curriculum + Nervous System Practices
Access structured teachings and embodiment tools that don’t just shift your mind, but retrain your body to feel trust, openness, and safety. This is how change becomes permanent.Private Community of High-Achieving Women
You’ll be surrounded by women who are just like you, powerful, growth-orientated and ready to create a love that feels aligned. A circle of women who inspire you, support you, and walk this path alongside you.
Why This Works
This is not another dating tactic or quick-fix formula.
It’s not about polishing your profile, memorizing clever scripts, or playing games to keep a man’s attention.
Because you don’t need more strategies.
You need transformation at the root.
When your nervous system shifts into safety and trust, everything changes:
The men you’re drawn to.
The way your body responds.
The kind of love you allow yourself to receive.
And that’s exactly what happens here.
You’ll stop:
Chasing men who can’t or won’t meet you.
You stop carrying the weight in every relationship.
Carrying all the responsibility just to keep love alive.
Silencing your desires out of fear of being “too much.”
And you’ll start:
Trusting yourself and your body, as your most reliable compass.
Relaxing into your feminine, while feeling more powerful than ever.
Feeling safe in the presence of strong, integrated men.
Attracting love that doesn’t drain you, but expands you.
This isn’t about working harder for love.
It’s about learning to receive it, fully.
Founding Member Offer
For a short time, you have the opportunity to join Decode the Masculine as a Founding Member for just $97 per month.
No contracts. Cancel anytime.
Your rate is locked in for life.
This invitation will never be offered again.
But this special founding rate is only available until Saturday, September 20th at 11:59 PM.
For less than the cost of a dinner out, you can claim lifetime access to the space, the tools, and the community that will forever transform the way you experience love.
In the dating world, you would never meet someone and then jump straight to marriage after the first date. There’s a natural process of getting to know each other, testing the waters, and feeling whether it’s right.
That’s why, for the next 48 hours only, we’ve decided to reopen enrollment with a new invitation:
You can “date us” first with a 30-day risk-free experience.
Here’s how it works: join Decode the Masculine today, experience the coaching calls, the expert interviews, the community, and the practices. If within 30 days you don’t feel nourished by the work, supported by the women, and clear about the value, simply let us know and we’ll refund you in full. All we ask to quality for the refund is to show up to the calls and do the weekly practices so you are actually doing the work.
We only want women inside this container who feel it’s the right fit. This is about building a community that is aligned, supportive, and deeply transformative.
This is Your Moment!
You don’t have to figure love out alone.
You don’t have to carry all the weight yourself.
You don’t have to keep repeating the same patterns.
You can step into a new experience, one where you feel safe, supported, and fully met.
Join Decode the Masculine today and give yourself the gift of:
True safety in love
The experience of real polarity
Partnership that meets you fully
A love that honors both your strength and your softness
Enrollment as a Founding Member is just $97 per month for the next 48 hours with a risk-free 30 day monty back guarantee but only until Saturday, September 20th at 11:59 PM.
After that, the investment goes up to $111
TESTIMONIALS
What others are saying
"My Life Has Blossomed"
"Working with Stef was life changing for me. It allowed me to get off the emotional roller coaster and live from a peaceful baseline where I could shift things in my business & relationship." - Joy
"It Transformed Me "
"I was starting to lose hope that I could have a healthy relationship & had a mistrust of men. My life today is so different. I am dating from a much healthier embodied place & able to relax into my feminine and trust men now" - Heather
"Highly recommend it"
"Joshua has this rare ability to hold up a clean & clear mirror & has helped me so much. Joshua is the embodiment of an initiated, integrated, embodied healthy sacred divine masculine." - Noel
"Such a safe space "
"Josh has this exceptional way of making everyone feel really safe & really seen. Josh is going to take you from where you are at now to where you want to be. " - Sarah
The Offering..
Here's what you get:
Bi-weekly 2hr Coaching Calls with Joshua & Stefanos
Direct, no-fluff guidance from men who embody healthy masculine leadership
Get Your Questions Answered
Bring your real questions and challenges and receive grounded reflection, not theory.
Monthly Curriculum, Embodiment & Nervous System Practices
Tools that help your body learn trust, openness and safety, not just your mind.
Private Community of High-Achieving Women
You’ll be surrounded by women who are powerful, growth-oriented, and ready to create love that feels aligned.
Normally: $197 month
Discounted for launch only $97/mo
30 Day Risk-Free Guarantee
"Highly Recommend"
I had some clarity on where I was meant to go but was feeling extremely blocked in being ready to do it! I was getting many sessions with various healers that weren’t landing the way I hoped…but something finally clicked in my session with Joshua.
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Call Flow & Timing
1.Live Q&A Calls
Held 1st & 3rd Wednesday @ 2 - 4 PM CST
2.Submit
your question in advance or on the call
3.Receive Access
on Zoom + Skool link upon joining
4.Cancel anytime
no long-term commitment required
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Meet Your Coaches
Meet Your Coaches
Stefanos Sifandos
A globally recognized mastercoach, trained educator and relationship expert with a background in behavioral science, trauma and somatics. Stefanos is passionate about leading people closer to their highest potential. He helps men and women escape negative patterns and cultivate a positive sense of self as well as restructuring and re-framing their relationships, the things that matter most to them, with themselves and their loved ones.
Joshua Wenner
A mastercoach, filmmaker, and nervous system expert with a background in behavioral science, grief, trauma, and somatics. Joshua helps men and women break free from unconscious patterns, heal core wounds, and build empowered, authentic relationships. His work integrates science and soul, guiding individuals to rewrite their relational blueprint and reconnect with their highest potential in love, intimacy, and within themselves